For COUPLES Ready To Build A SECURE & LASTING LOVE

ACCREDITED RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST & INTERNATIONAL MASTER COACH

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Create & Maintain FULFILLING Relationships - In WEEKS, Not Years.

Our PROVEN, Guaranteed, Secure Relationship Method™ Helps Couples, Ready For REAL CHANGE.

STRUGGLING In Love? It’s Not You - It’s Your Nervous System PROTECTING You.

Your gut reactions, old patterns, and wild emotions? They’re just your brain trying to keep you safe. Problem is, protection doesn’t build connection - and that’s what love really needs. Ready to cut through the noise and get crystal clear? Take my free quiz. Discover what’s really blocking you, and claim your clear, proven plan to lasting love.

Get A SOLUTION TAILORED TO you

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END Relationship STRESS & Start Living FULLY

I’m Annie Lavin - Accredited Relationship Therapist and Master Coach. I help people to stop wasting time, energy, and emotion on relationship patterns that aren’t working - and finally build the kind of love, trust, and connection that makes everything else in life easier.

If you’re in a relationship that feels heavy, distant, or harder than it should be, or leading a team struggling to connect, communicate, or collaborate you already know this truth: relationship stress spills into everything. Your focus. Your energy. Your confidence. Your results. And waiting for things to “just get better” won’t fix it.

The Secure Relationship Method™ supports couples who want to strengthen connection, individuals navigating the end of a relationship, and leaders seeking healthier communication in their teams - delivering clarity, security, and results that last.

This isn’t generic coaching or traditional talk therapy. It’s a proven system step-by-step system that identifies what’s not working - and solves for it. No guesswork. No wasted effort. Just real, actionable solutions that create lasting change.

When your relationships work, your whole life flows. No more confusion. No more second-guessing. No more wasted time.

Get clear, get connected, get results - your first step starts now.

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Why The SECURE Relationship Method™ Is DIFFERENT

✺ Integrative Expertise

With my qualifications as an accredited psychotherapist and master coach, your transformation is in expert hands. I uniquely integrate therapeutic knowledge and coaching for a holistic approach, enabling significant breakthroughs regardless of how you choose to work with me.
✺ Science-Backed Success

Experience a method that’s trauma-aware, rooted in cutting-edge neuroscience and emotional resilience. My evidence-based approach empowers you to navigate challenges and reduce stress, ensuring every step is grounded in scientific research and tailored to your specific needs.
✺ Structured Support

Regardless of how you choose to work with me, you'll receive solution-focused, action-oriented strategies designed to deliver the lasting change you're seeking. With a clear, step-by-step plan, you'll experience consistent progress and transformation every step of the way.

“We called it tension but really it was years of resentment, no intimacy, and nothing left to say. We’d done therapy (twice), read the books, tried to date each other again. Nothing shifted - until Annie. She didn’t waste time with theory. She got in, named the patterns we couldn’t see, and gave us the tools to finally change them. Within weeks, the tension was gone. We were calm. Clear. Intimate again - not just physically, but emotionally.”

Mai & Dougie | Dublin
“I didn’t realize how much my personal relationship stress was bleeding into my leadership until Annie’s sessions. Her approach is practical yet deeply insightful. The tools she shares helped me hold space for myself and my team in a way that’s sustainable and powerful. This isn’t therapy diluted for business - it’s relationship mastery that makes a tangible difference.”

Maya, 55 | Dubai
“No other therapist had ever gone this deep. Annie helped me realise I wasn’t choosing partners from my values - I was choosing from fear. Through her guidance, I saw what was keeping me from real intimacy. Ended relationships that were bringing me down and started again from a new place - one rooted in security, not scarcity. I finally met someone I never would’ve attracted before. I feel like myself in this relationship. That’s the real win.”

Rachel 53 | London

How Would YOU LIKE To CONNECT With ME?

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Choosing Love Podcast

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THE SECURE RELATIONSHIP METHOD™

For Couples

Tried Therapy & Still Feel Stuck? You’ve talked it through. You’ve tried to fix it on your own.
But nothing seems to shift - not in a lasting way. The Secure Relationship Method™ is different. It’s not talk for the sake of talking. It’s targeted, therapist-designed, and results-driven.
We don’t just surface the issues - we solve for them. Fast. Because when your relationship works, everything else in life flows better. Book your FREE 15-minute consultation and let’s find out if this is the right fit for your relationship.

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The LATEST ON The Pod

Welcome to Choosing Love, the podcast that unlocks the secrets to building secure, fulfilling relationships and living a life of purpose. Join Annie as she interviews inspiring people from around the world, sharing their journeys through love, loss, heartbreak, and triumph.

Whether you're single, partnered, navigating family or work dynamics, or pursuing your dreams, Choosing Love offers actionable insights and practical strategies to help you create deep, meaningful connections. Tune in to transform your relationships - and your life - through lasting, empowered love.

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