
Secure relating is a learned skill
Private RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Heal DEEPLY. Love SECURELY. Live FULLY.
Helping People Raise SELF-WORTH, HEAL TRAUMA & Cultivate SECURELY ATTACHED, EMOTIONALLY FULFILLING Relationships.
WHEN To Work With The Relationship Coach PRIVATELY
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Life's significant transitions, such as divorce, becoming a parent, or navigating the loneliness of single life, can feel emotionally overwhelming. Whether you're struggling with feelings of anxiety, fear, or avoidance in relationships, these challenges often bring confusion and isolation.
But you don’t have to face these struggles alone. I specialize in helping you heal attachment wounds that influence your relationships, guiding you through these transitions with a secure foundation. Together, we’ll address the specific hurdles you're facing, so you can gain clarity and build the healthy, connected relationships you deserve. With personalized support, we’ll create a clear path toward healing, empowerment, and a fulfilling life, grounded in secure attachment principles.
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Sensitive relationship conflicts, such as infidelity, communication breakdowns, or differing values, often trigger fear, anxiety, or feelings of abandonment. These emotional rollercoasters can push people into anxious, avoidant, or fearful patterns of relating, causing distance and confusion. These patterns, rooted in insecure attachment, can leave you feeling stuck and unsure of how to move forward.
In our private coaching sessions, I’ll guide you through these challenges using secure attachment principles. Together, we’ll address the root causes of your relationship struggles - whether it's fear of rejection, difficulty trusting, or emotional avoidance. With tailored strategies, we’ll break free from old patterns and build a foundation of trust, emotional safety, and deeper connection, transforming your relationship dynamics and helping you feel more secure and fulfilled.
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Uncovering family secrets can be both surprising and emotionally overwhelming. Whether it's discovering long-lost relatives or hidden truths, these revelations can stir up feelings of confusion, betrayal, or even relief. It’s essential to navigate these emotions with the right support. In our sessions, we’ll explore the effects these discoveries have on your relationships, helping you process your feelings, heal, and rebuild emotional safety and trust.
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Navigating past relationship and attachment trauma can be overwhelming. Unresolved fears and insecurities from previous experiences shape how we connect today, leaving us feeling disconnected and unsure of ourselves. These patterns can block meaningful connections and erode self-confidence.
In our sessions, you'll find a safe space to explore how past pain influences your relationships. We’ll uncover the attachment patterns holding you back and work together to shift self-limiting beliefs. This will help you rebuild your confidence and create more secure, fulfilling relationships.
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Setting and achieving personal goals in your relationships can be a transformative journey. Clarifying your relationship goals is essential for creating a fulfilling love life. Together, we will define clear, actionable objectives that align with your vision for love, ensuring that every session propels you closer to your dreams.
Clarity is only the beginning. The path to fulfilling these goals can be filled with challenges, which is why accountability and follow-up are crucial. You’ll benefit from ongoing support as you implement meaningful changes in your relationship, helping you stay on track and committed to your growth.
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Indecision in your relationship can be frustrating and anxiety-inducing, especially when you're unsure whether to stay or move on. These feelings can arise from various sources, including conflicting values, unmet needs, or attachment-related concerns. For instance, those with anxious attachment may fear abandonment, while avoidant attachment can lead to difficulty committing, and disorganized attachment may cause confusion about relationship safety.
In our sessions, you'll have a safe space to explore your emotions and the attachment dynamics at play in your relationship. Together, we'll uncover the root causes of your indecision, define your relationship goals and values, and work towards building a more secure and confident approach to decision-making.
The SECURE Relationship Method ™
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✺ Break Through Negative Patterns
Many of us unconsciously repeat unhealthy relationship dynamics rooted in past experiences. Through attachment theory, I’ll help you recognize these patterns and teach you how to rewire your responses, so you can break free and build healthier connections.
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✺ Heal & Build Resilience
Unhealed trauma can block us from fully experiencing love and connection. Using a combination of attachment theory, somatic techniques, and polyvagal theory, we’ll work together to heal emotional wounds, release tension, and build the resilience needed for secure and lasting relationships.
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✺ Create Inner Safety
Feeling truly seen and safe in your relationships is key to love and trust. By integrating attachment theory with practical communication tools, I’ll show you how to go beyond your learned anxious or avoidant relating, and instead move towards trusting, secure relating.
SECURE ATTACHMENT Styles Report HIGHER Levels Of Relationship SATISFACTION, Improved COMMUNICATION & LOWER Levels Of ANXIETY & Conflict, Resulting In STRONGER & MORE FULFILLING Connections. This Is The FOUNDATION Of What I TEACH.
TAKE Your NEXT Step to FREEDOM
Most relationship struggles stem from insecure attachment patterns, often shaped by past trauma. Healing these wounds and understanding your attachment style allows you to shift from anxious, avoidant, or fearful behaviors to a secure, stable connection with yourself and others. This shift unlocks the capacity for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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I partner with you so you don’t have to face challenges in your relationships, whether it's with self, partner(s), lover, children, parents, friends, or co-workers alone. I help you shift from fear and disconnection to true meaningful connection.
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As an integrative relationship therapist, I blend psycho-education, EFT tapping, attachment theory, and somatic tools to help you break through emotional barriers. Sessions are customized to your needs, whether you're working solo or with a partner (when safe). In a supportive space, I’ll equip you with the tools to foster deeper connections, heal past wounds, and create secure, loving relationships.
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Together, we'll break through the barriers blocking love in your life. Using a combination of EFT tapping, attachment theory, and somatic techniques, we'll heal past wounds and create secure, thriving connections with yourself and others. Whether you're looking to heal, build emotional resilience, or navigate relationship challenges, I’ll guide you every step of the way toward deeper intimacy and lasting transformation.
FAQ
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The length of coaching will depend on where you're starting and the relationship dynamics you're navigating. If you're experiencing indecision or uncertainty, we might resolve things in as few as 1 to 3 sessions. However, if you're working through deeper attachment patterns or relational blocks, the process may take 3 to 6 months, with regular sessions to facilitate lasting change. My approach is solution-focused, and after our initial consultation, we’ll outline the steps that will best support your path to secure, fulfilling relationships.
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During your first session, you can expect a warm, welcoming environment where you’ll feel safe to share your thoughts and feelings. In advance of our meeting, I’ll provide you with an intake questionnaire to help us discover where we need to begin. This questionnaire will offer valuable insights into your current situation and goals, allowing us to make the most of our time together. Together, we’ll outline a personalized roadmap that leads to the transformation you desire!
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Coaching is for everyone! Whether you're single, in a relationship, or navigating family dynamics, my coaching empowers you to thrive in all aspects of your life. If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of yourself and your relationships, you’ll gain valuable insights and tools, regardless of your current relationship status. Together, we’ll work to build the secure, connected relationships you deserve.
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Your comfort is my top priority. It's completely normal to feel uncertain about certain topics, and I encourage you to voice any concerns. Our sessions are a safe, judgment-free space, where you set the pace. We’ll only approach sensitive issues when you feel ready, ensuring a supportive environment that fosters healing and growth at your own pace.
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If you're feeling stuck, struggling with emotional dysregulation, or facing challenges due to anxious or avoidant patterns in your relationships, coaching can be an incredible resource. These attachment dynamics can often create a cycle of uncertainty and disconnect, but building a secure attachment can help transform these challenges. If you're ready to create deeper, more secure connections and address patterns of emotional overwhelm, I invite you to book a complimentary discovery call. We’ll explore your relationship goals, and I’ll guide you toward healthier, more balanced ways of relating.
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The minimum investment starts at $500 for your intake session (60-75 minutes). During this time, we’ll delve into your relationship history and the challenges you’re facing, paying particular attention to any anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment patterns that may be impacting your connections. This session is essential for understanding your emotional patterns, relationship dynamics, and where you might be experiencing emotional dysregulation. It’s the foundation for identifying how we can move toward a more secure and balanced way of relating.
THE FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS